Reading body language: When it comes to reading the nonverbal communication of men or women there are a few things that you must do first in order to make sure that you read the situation the right way. For the ability to read body language effectively you must take the time to base line the situation.
The signs of body language can be overt or right out in the open and the man or the woman doesn’t care that you and everyone else sees them or the man or the woman does not really have control of what they are doing with their nonverbal communication.
The signals of nonverbal communication may also be covert where the people around may not see what one person does with their body language. This may be a threatening gesture all of the way to something seductive.
Base lining and body language
Men, woman and kids have set routines when it comes to gestures and ticks in their body language. Now there may be the sign of lying and touching the face but if the man or the woman consistently touches their face there is a high probability that they may not be lying.
Most readings of body language or nonverbal communication are based on probability. In order to understand what type of probability there is and the accuracy of the read one must take the time to figure out the normal routines of the person that is being read. Reading real time requires the use of probabilities.
In gambling they use the word “tell” as a way to describe the body language of a gambler who has a sign or signal when something good or bad happens.
How to baseline to read body language
Base lining others can happen real time or as the man, woman or child is in action. This reading can take place live or may even be done over video camera. There is also a possibility that there is video of the subject that can be read to help get a grasp for normal routines. In some instances their can be a great deal learned about the person by looking at pictures. Base lining the body language of others is a highly visible actions since you must be able to see what the body is doing.
Base lining and normal actions
When base lining the normal actions of a man, woman or child you will watch what their body is doing by looking at:
- · Their hands and arms
- · Their facial expressions
- · The direction and spacing of the body
- · Their bell bubble and or proximity to others
- · Their automatic gestures
Base lining of the hands and body language
Many people talk with their hands and they have gestures that are common for them to use. Some nationalities and regions have hand gestures that they use consistently and they may have a totally different meaning in other parts of the world. In some places talking with hands is not just normal but almost required to communicate effectively.
Base lining and facial expressions
Facial expressions can be a rich body language pool of knowledge when it comes to what the other person may or may not be thinking, Micro expressions may be used to determine what an emotion is and when reading the rest of the body may result in almost near mind reading experience of others. Looking at the eyes, eyebrow and mouth can help determine what emotion or emotions are present.
Base lining and the direction and spacing of the body
While base lining the body language of others it is important to note the distance between the people involved. You may be able to understand the nonverbal communication better by looking at the direction the body is facing compared to the other people in the conversation or the group. Talking face to face means one thing and talking to a man or a woman’s back means something different so it is relevant to understand and interpret what is going on.
Base lining and bell bubble and or proximity to others
Not only is it important to know what direction the body is facing to interpret nonverbal communication but it is also important to not the distance between the man or the woman that is being looked at. People who just met will typically have a greater distance from people who are friends and people who are close friends or intimate can be closer in proximity than those who are just friends.
The distance between those communication can help you interpret, understand and baseline a situation better.
The bell bubble describes the distance between men and or woman and can be described as personal space.
Base lining and automatic gestures
When reading the body language of a subject you will watch for routine or automatic gestures that they have. When a man or a woman lies they may change their routines as to what their body language does. They may have had a hand gesture or facial expressions that they use and when the emotion or context of the situation changes the routine or the facial expression may change. You will want to look for the changes that take place and the is the whole point of base lining how people communicate nonverbally.
In order to interpret body language effectively you must take the time to base line the nonverbal communication of others.
As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about base lining and reading body language.
Now go implement!
Scott Sylvan Bell
Body language expert Scott Sylvan Bell explains how to base line others for reading body language: Video credit









Mr. Bell,
Thank you for more great tips and insights into decoding body language.
Yours In Health!
G.E. Moon II
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I would enjoy seeing a video of you establishing a base line for body language.
Yours In Health!
Dr. Wendy
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I have noticed men and women, boys and girls can base lining of the hands and body language differently.Can you expand on it?
Octavio
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Interesting information, especially about the space between people when they are interacting. It’s amazing what you can learn about people just watching their body language.
Suzanne
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Base lining in context of the environment / situation makes a world of difference.
I’ve often wondered if there’s research about people who are essentially strangers but tend to invade my ‘personal space’. Is it a gesture of trying to assert dominance? I’d like to know.
Sabrina Peterson, NASM CPT, CES
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Some more tips to catch the Liers! I will concentrate on using my usual gestures while telling my lies! LOL. Nah!
More and More I notice in Detective shows they seem to weave in the body language tips into the dialogue, where the star is giving a tip to a youngter in love about how to read the body language of their girlfriend or something.
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Scott,
interpreting the base line is very important. Recently, a Neighborhood Watch captain shot and killed a 17-year-old black teenager in Orlando, Florida. Was it a self defence? You can put your hand in your pocket and reach for a hamburger… But if the context is different, a fight or something, hand in the pocket is a treath. Base line reading is so important. Can cost a life.
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Base lining is where all body language reading should start. Much of the pop culture body language stuff ignores it.I am so glad that you deal with it here.
Sonya Lenzo
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Yes, baselining is very important … most body language is relatively universal and some are just learned / habitual poses.
Baselining is key…most people that read or write about body language forget it…not you…
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Thanks for explaining base lining. I would have never thought to do that.
Cherie Miranda
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Thank you so much for explaining baselining so clearly!
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