Body language of frustration

Body language of frustration: Whether you are out in public, at the office or even at the home there are times where frustration happens. Frustration can be because of you, another person or no one in general.

 

What if there were a way for you to see the signs and signals of frustration to possibly defuse the situation before it escalates to more than what it already is. As you watch the man or the woman there are some very specific actions that happens as the frustrations sets in that you can identify and observe.

 

There may just be a few signs of frustration or you may find that there are many combined together. There are a few items to look at when determining a man or a woman is showing the nonverbal signs of frustration:

  • ·         The facial expressions of the man or the woman
  • ·         The hands and arms of the man or the woman
  • ·         The posture of the man  or the woman
  • ·         The breathing pattern of the man or the woman
  • ·         The proximity of the man or woman

 

Body language of frustration and the face

As a man or woman becomes frustrated you may first see the effects in their face. There may be the micro expressions of disgust or contempt in their face. The frustration in the face may go as far as biting the lip.

 

In some instances the man or the woman may just shake their head “no” and look at the person or even look away from the person that is the “cause” of the emotion and all wht while they may have the micro expressions going for everyone to see.

 

It may just be a sour look on the offenders face that will tip you off to their emotion.

 

If the person becomes angry while frustrated you may see their eyes pin and they may even become locked on the one who has caused the issue.

 

Body language of frustration and movements of the hands and arms

As a man or woman becomes frustrated you may see their hands and arms making sharp and fast movements. They may make a fist with their hands or the fist may be used as control to hold back from doing something they might regret. The man or the woman may push away their frustrations or throw their hands up in the air

 

You may see their arms leave past the area of social value meaning you can see their arms outstretched and animated more than normal.

The movements that you may see with the arms and hands may seem frantic especially the more angry that the man or the woman becomes. In some instances the frustrated person may not even move their arms and they just may be folded. Even with their arms folded you may see their hands shaking.

 

Body language of frustration and the posture of the man or woman

When you see the posture and the movements of the body of a frustrated man or woman the emotion may cause them to stand straight up. There are times where they may turn their body away from the offender who got them frustrated. The chest may be puffed up also as their anger increases.

 

Body language of frustration and the breathing patterns

As the man or the works their way through their emotions you may see them take deep breathes. The breathing pattern may also become shorter. Now there are times where you can’t see the rib cages of most people with clothes on but with anger you may see the excessive or deep breathing as the frustration builds

 

Body language of frustration and proximity

There are a few variations of proximity when men or women become frustrated. As frustration sets in and goes through the stages the proximity may change.  

  • ·         Move towards the person who caused the frustration
  • ·         Move away from the person who caused the frustration

 

There are times where frustrated people move towards the man or the woman who has put them in the emotional state or near the item that is causing them pain or anguish.

 

For some the proximity of the party or item that causes the frustration is enough to get them to move away from the root cause, they may even give up and walk away.

 

Body language of frustrated men or woman and how to deal with them

Knowing the signs and signals of a frustrated person may allow you to defuse the situation by watching your own body language so that you do not activate the law of reaction. You will also want to make sure that you keep away from pointing and also watch your proximity to the person who is either frustrated and make sure you stay out of their bell bubble. Giving the person room so that they are not crowded will help but if you feel that they are closing in on you will want to get away. It is also not a good idea to get them cornered or crowded because frustration can turn to anger.

 

Learning how to read body language can help you in many situations from business to relationships and beyond.

I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions on the body language of frustration.

 

 

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

Body language of James Bond

 

Body language of James Bond: Imagine the complications of being a world class spy. Reading the nonverbal actions of James Bond does require you to think a little more about body language than most people.

 

There are so many facets to a person Like James Bond and the actions that he takes along with the person that he has. Thorough out his day there are plenty of activities that he has to achieve:

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James Bond and the body language of seduction

One of the things that the British spy James Bond is known for is the women that he seduces. There are times when James is a pick up artists and seduces the women he needs to get the valuable information from or he just may be attracted to them. James knows how to get close to the women invading their proximity or Bell bubble touching them, facial expressions or using eye contact to get their attention. The women are usually intricate and beautiful but there is normally a twist where they get James into trouble.

 

James Bond and the body language of spying

While out in the field James Bond must spy on people or activities there are times where he has to get attention and draw out the villain. Sometimes the actions that James takes nonverbally like dropping something or throwing something to get the person or the group of people to take action so that he knows who to chase or even fight. There are also times where James must use covert body language and hide in the shadows so that the man or the woman that he is chasing can lead him up the chain of villains  

 

James bond and fights

As James goes through his journeys one of the things that he has to do is fight with some of the villains or the super villains. Now some of the times he has to strike first and sometimes he is surprised and has to fight for his life. Sometimes this fighting is from James seeing the body language of the villain tense up or picks up on a micro expression and explodes into action. Once the fight is done there are times where the nonverbal communication of the fight can be seen from the clothes being torn or some blood. There are also times where you cant tell from looking that James was in a fight.

 

Body language, emotions and facial expressions of James Bond

There are plenty of moods or emotions that James bond has to live up to also some of these emotions may show up in the body language or nonverbal communication while some of the emotions may show up as micro expressions.

 

As the super-agent there are times where James doesn’t get along with  his leaders and usually shows contempt for their orders.

 

Being the super spy that he is most of the time James Bond shows confidence in his actions most of the time whether he is with women or driving his car after a villain. There are times where he shows frustration and either kills people, crashes cars or breaks things.

 

Many people would consider James bond arrogant because of the way that he carries himself and in some instances he is. Understanding what type of spy he is and what type of insane villains and dictators he must deal with may explain his arrogance against people. Since he is the best at what he does he may just exude confidence so he would walk tall with his chin up, walk at a fast pace in stride, shoulders up and have great eye contact.

 

 

While trailing villains James does have to lower his profile and use covert body language.  Hiding in the background he has to either walk faster or slower than the people that he is chasing after. He may have to duck behind cars, sit in the shadows or use some gadget to peer around corners to see what his nemesis is up to.

 

James bonds clothing and superhero articles  

When taking a look at the clothing and gadgets of James Bond some of the articles could be considered super hero articles. That would mean that they have some sort of special power of ability to give him more confidence. As a general rule James wears clothing and suits form the top designers.

 

James Bond Reading Body Language

As a spy James Bond would have training to read body language, nonverbal communication and micro expressions. Chasing villains that are trying to kill him or destroy a country or the planet while seducing women would have to require more talents than just being able to talk, drive and kill people. It would help James to know the signs and signals of lust to danger.  

 

Learn how to read body language

Whether you are reading the body language or the nonverbal communication of James Bond or learning how to read people for sales or negotiation this home study course is the best route to learn the signs and signals of peoples actions.   

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about the body language of James Bond.

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

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Body language of a smile

Body language of a smile: It doesn’t matter where you go in the world there are a few things that are universal:

  • ·         Coca Cola
  • ·         Traffic
  • ·         Smiles

Now when it comes to other people you may not have the ability to speak their language but the universal sign and signal of approval is the smile. You know that whatever language you speak the smile is the gateway into others.

 

Body language of real smiles:

To learn about real smiles and how to understand them we will have to take a short trip to France. Its ok it will just take the time of this paragraph. You can thank a Dr. for Neurology as we know it today and that would be Guillaume-Benjamin-Amand Duchenne (1806 – 1875).

 

Dr. Duchenne is the father of neurology as we know it. When you see a real or genuine smile you can have some inside knowledge and know that the Duchenne smile was named after him.

 

There are a few traits when understanding the nonverbal communication of a smile and also to know if it is a real smile that you are reading:

  • ·         The corners of the lips will pull back
  • ·         The eyes will create crows feet wrinkles

 

When you read or interpret a real smile you will see the corners of the lips pull back towards the ears. When a man or women gives a genuine smile you will see crow’s feet or wrinkles at the corners of the eye. As age sets in on both men and women these crow’s feet become more pronounced.

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Body language of a fake smile:

When you are reading into the nonverbal signs of a smile you will want to look at the corners of the lips and or the cheeks. The cheeks may raise in the case of a fake smile depending on the man or the woman .

 

In some instances a fake or generated smile may look more like surprise than a smile.

Most people cannot successfully fake a “genuine” smile and that is great news for you because you know when you interpret a genuine smile there is high probability it is real. One could guess it is a natural defense mechanism built over time to defend real emotions.

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Body language and learning how to read it:

Reading the signs of a real smile is a great place to learn how to read body language. A great place to look into and increase your capabilities is to look at photos or videos of men, women and kids smiling in order to get your baseline of this nonverbal communication skill. You can go places where people would have real smiles and get a feel for what they look like and you could also just observe people at dinner where on a weekend night you can see just about every human emotion and or micro expression possible.

 

It is important for you to know what your body language is doing so why not video tape yourself so you can see for yourself what you are doing when you communicate with others. See if you can give a real or Duchenne smile when you don’t want to and then you can also see what it looks like when you fake this experience.

 

Reading body language home study

You can find out more here in order to learn the signs and signals of nonverbal communication.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about reading the body language of a real smile.

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

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