Body language of cufflinks

Body language of cufflinks: When looking at the nonverbal communication others you can look to their accessories to give you some nonverbal clues.


When looking at the body language of cufflinks you will want to look at the man or the woman wearing them. Traditionally cufflinks are an accessory that men would typically wear but some designers are adding cufflinks to women’s accessories.  In some instances they may add confidence or help with the lack of confidence.


There are a few things to look at when determining the nonverbal communication of an accessory and what it contributes to the body lf the man or the woman wearing them:

  • ·         What are they wearing, a suit or just a nice shirt
  • ·         Where are they and does the clothing match the occasion
  • ·         Is the man or woman showing off jewelry
  • ·         Are the cufflinks a super hero article or a trophy?

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Body language of cufflinks and a suit

Cufflinks add one more layer of customization when it comes to dressing up. There are all sorts of different designs and or materials that cufflinks are made of. For some men that dress up they match their cufflinks to their ties and or other accessories. Depending upon what the cufflinks look like they may or may not add to the appearance or the persona of the man or the woman wearing them. Some may say that a suit with a shirt that has French cuffs that allow cufflinks is more elegant and more professional.


Body language of a special occasion

There are some men or women who only wear their special shirt and cufflinks for a certain occasion. This would be for them to dress up for a special event and for them it isn’t an everyday item. This is where the extra layer of elegance for some would be. Cufflinks seem to be a special item to wear but not something every day.


Body language of persuasion and cufflinks

You may see top persuaders wear cufflinks as it does add to their appearance. For some people cufflinks are intimidating because they are not normally an everyday item for some people. In some industries the persona of the person wearing them makes them seem more professional or even the idea that there will be extra cost involved.


Body language of a status symbol

Just like any other accessory there is a wide range of options when it comes to cost and or design. You may find threaded balls that can be used as the cufflink but if one to wear the silk balls for a night out on town he or she may be judged for not “dressing up” enough for the situation these designs can run from $10- 15 for the set, so they may be considered the first step in cuff links

There are ranges from $6 to $2,500 or more for cufflinks as every major designer makes some for their clothes. You may find companies like:

  • ·         Scott Kay
  • ·         King Baby
  • ·         Konstantino
  • ·         David Donahue
  • ·         Burberry
  • ·         Louis Vuitton
  • ·         Gucci
  • ·         Tateossian RT


These manufacturers may have all sorts of designs from a classic silver plate with minimal designs all the way to football teams, animals, insects or other types of objects. For the cufflinks above the $150 range there are so many options to choose from;


  • ·         Silver and other jewelry
  • ·         Diamonds and or other precious stones
  • ·         Buffalo nickels and or other types of monetary coins   


As a status symbol the accessories for the accessories can be fairly intricate and layered with precious stones and or metals. For the men or the women who wear cufflinks that are status symbols you may see them intently showing off what they are wearing. Maybe the man or the woman moves their arm awkwardly in order to get those around to see what they are wearing as an accessory. You may even see the man or the woman not showing off but still getting attention from the design in the cufflinks or the way that they match up with the clothing.


Body language of cufflinks and super hero articles or trophies

For some that wear cufflinks they may be a trophy or a gift. For some they may have been worn to a special occasion and have a special meaning. It may be that they were given as a prize or as an introduction into a group. When looked at like they have special powers they may be a super hero article. Now in an instance like this you may see the man or the woman wearing the cufflinks showing off or even being as covert as possible while wearing the trophy or the super hero article.


No matter who is wearing the cufflinks and where you are you will want to baseline the situation to see what is going on. The person wearing the accessories they may or may not be wearing a suit but there is a reason why they are wearing them. Just take your time and baseline the interactions that they are having nonverbally. Many times questions about interesting looking cufflinks may be a good opener when looking for a reason to start a conversation. Many times it’s an easy compliment and a way to get talking especially when they are intricate.


There is so much to the nonverbal stories and actions behind accessories and it’s not always an easy read.


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As always I would like to thank you for your comments and or questions about the body language of cufflinks.




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Scott Sylvan Bell








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Reading body language of super hero items

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Reading body language: When you look at the nonverbal communication that a man or woman has there are times where a viewer can see the confidence in the man or woman shine through almost like a special power.


It almost seems that the man or woman cannot be stopped…


Reading the body language of men and women can lead to many places and some interesting topics. Explaining the “Law of super hero articles” is one of those places.   


Have you ever watched someone who was superstitious about their socks, pen, watch, sunglasses or any other inanimate object that the man or woman felt help them increase in whatever action they were taking part in?


So what does this inanimate object have to do with reading body language and nonverbal communication?




It could be a suit or shoes and maybe even the makeup on a woman that builds confidence…


Body language expert Scott Sylvan Bell interprets super hero articles
Body language expert Scott Sylvan Bell shares super hero articles


Reading body language of super hero articles

It may even be the object or objects that people hold or wear that may cause them to have an inordinate amount of confidence in whatever task that they are doing.


If you were asking in your mind could it be a set of golf clubs, a car or even a big fat diamond ring?




When reading the body language signs and signals of men and women you will typically find that they will have something that they use as a crutch to grant them their super hero powers for their confidence.


So you still don’t see how this would help?


Have you ever been to somewhere dressed up and all of the sudden you feel better or you go out and get a new hand bag and boom your confidence is through the roof? That confidence shows through in your nonverbal communication and your body language changes, and yes everybody can see it but they may not be able to understand or interpret why.


The body language of confidence is almost automatic and you are living the “Law of super hero articles”.

The signs and signals in your body language that others would see are:

  • ·         A smother pace with the actions of your body almost like a glide
  • ·         A faster pace with walking
  • ·         Shoulders up and possibly out
  • ·         The chin could be lifted and in some cases high enough that other people may think that it is arrogance
  • ·         A smile or smirk on the face of the confident man or woman
  • ·         Sometimes you will see in the man a swagger within his walk and or actions
  • ·         The article with super hero power may be shown off or lead off of the body


The law of super hero article says: “A man or woman will use their inanimate object to help build confidence  or draw from this article when needed to overcome an event. This article can be anything from clothing, jewelry or even accessories”.


Body language expert Scott Sylvan Bell explains how a watch can be a super hero article
Body langugae expert Scott Sylvan Bell shows how a watch can build confidence


When a man or woman is really using their article for super hero powers they may lead off with it. In the case of the hand bag it may be held in a strange way so that it gets attention. A watch or a ring on a man or woman could be used in a similar fashion. Sometimes after women have gone through plastic surgery they may use whatever body part that was modified to lead off with.


Of these items it may be that you get a manicure or pedicure or even a haircut frequently. For some it may even be the tattoos that they have and it can go as far as people who have had plastic surgery where the crutch holds its power of confidence.


Reading body language homework

Your body language homework is to go through your clothes and accessories to see what super hero articles that you have and write down what you think that other people are reading from you when you wear them. May a note of how you think your nonverbal communication changes. Once you have done this you will see how these super hero articles may affect other men or women and even you when you wear or possess them.


The knowledge of your super hero articles also helps you on a day where you may not have all of the confidence that you think that you should. Just remember that the extra confidence that you gain from these objects is only temporary at best and not real so it must be reloaded constantly.


For some men and women this means constant trips to the store to upgrade super hero powers and this is what some advertisers want you to feel about the product that you buy from vendors and or companies. They sell a dream or feeling with super hero powers and you buy into it.   


True confidence does not come from possession of articles it comes from within.


And you thought you were just going to learn about reading body language but you also received a small course in marketing.


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As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about reading the body language of super hero articles.



Now go implement!



Scott Sylvan Bell


Luxury Blue Sapphire Ring  by John Kasawa, Wrist Watch by Worakit Sirijinda:Photo credits for reading body language if superhero articles


Reading body language of sunglasses

Reading body language: When you take a look at people with sunglasses you may not have realized or understood that there is body language involved.


Sunglasses can be used for more than blocking the sunlight form your eyes, they can be used for so many more reasons:

  • ·         Style
  • ·         Following the crowd
  • ·         Intimidation
  • ·         Medical conditions


Reading body language of sunglasses and intimidation
Reading body language of sunglasses and style


Body language reading of reasons to wear sunglasses

There are times that style dictates that men or women wear sunglasses. Now these sun glasses could have light or dark lenses. Some people would interpret that dark sunglasses could mean that the person is hiding something. Now sometimes in order to fulfill a persona with the style men or women will wear their sunglasses indoors or even at night. If the glasses are for style many times they will be from a designer, in some instances part of style is to use cheap sunglasses instead of the more costly designer brands.


Now style and following the crowd are two different things when it comes to the body language of sunglasses. Style can be an individual effort while following the crowd is a little different.


In some instances the lenses of the glasses will have a mirror reflection on them. This coating on the lenses will cause even more intimidation to happen. The hope is that you will feel desperate to understand what is going on in the other persons mind or even left out.


In the case where a man or woman would need to intimidate another person they may wear their glasses so that their eyes cannot be seen. This means that the other person has no real contact or feel and that the intimidation can be felt but the other man or woman can’t really put their finger on it. This disconnect causes the intimidation.


Mirrored sunglasses have a body language of their own. Reading into why people wear them and why they need to intimidate others or they could be wearing them as a way to hide from society.


There are some who feel that they need to hide and no matter the style or intimidation factor they will put the glasses on so they can’t be read easily.


Reading body language sunglasses and interpreting their meaning
reading body language of sunglasses at night


The last explanation of the body language of sunglasses is that some people have to wear them because of medical conditions. There are some men or women that need sunglasses to help see outside whether it is bright or night. There are some people who even have to have some sort of tinting to their glasses at night to help protect their eyes.


If you do have to interpret the body language being portrayed by sunglasses on a man or woman it is important to take the time to read the person to understand why they are wearing the glasses.


Reading body language of super hero articles or accessories

Lastly there are some who would wear the glasses because they may increase the internal feelings of the man or woman almost as if they were a super hero. In a sense it is like dressing up and role playing while being a kid. Some men or women will have complete changes in their body language of more confidence by just using sunglasses so they become more than an accessory. This personification of this one article changes the whole persona of the person wearing them.

Learn how to read and examine body language like an expert.


As always I would like to thank you in advance for your questions or comments on the body language of sunglasses.


Now go implement!


Scott Sylvan Bell


Smiling Girl With Sunglasses by photostock, Angel DJ by Charisma:Photo credit for reading the body language of sunglasses like an expert