Body language of glasses: When looking at the body language of men or women who wear glasses there is definitely some nonverbal communication going on whether they think so or not.
When you look at a man or a woman you make some assumptions about them and how they will be or even their intelligence level. When you make these assumptions you will fall into the law of reaction.
Body language experts will share with you it only matters what the viewer thinks is going on and this is important to note as you will think certain things about people by the way that they dress, their accessories and even the way that they look physically.
Is that a bad thing…
Not really as we are a very visual society and part of that is making judgments about people and their nonverbal actions.
Body language of glasses and your thoughts
When you see or think of a man or woman with glasses what are some of your common thoughts about the person that is wearing them
·Some may find glasses sexy
·No thoughts or beliefs at all about the person
No matter what your first thought is there was a message sent by the man or the woman who has the accessory
Body language of glasses and location
When looking at the body language of men or women that wear glasses you will want to look at their location.
Are they at school?
Are they at work?
Should they have surgery to not have to wear glasses?
Do they have a lack of confidence in social situations because they are wearing glasses?
Sometimes men and or women will not wear their glasses to certain events because they think that they will be judged socially. In some of these instances they may wear contacts or the men or the woman may go without their glasses even if it could be a safety concern for driving or being out in public.
Body language of glasses a super hero article
For some people who are in the business of persuading others they may have frames that are real from glasses but the lenses are not prescription. Now at first this persuasion strategy may sound strange but wait a second.
Who was the smartest kid in school?
The kid with glasses…
Who was the kid you couldn’t hit or be mad at?
The kid with glasses…
Who had all of the smart answers?
The boy or girl with glasses
Sure they were made fun of but they had special protection and because they had glasses those boys and girls become men and women and now the have special powers
..because they are smart and have all of the answers and you can’t get mad at them
So in this case the glasses can be a prop that gives the wearer power but it’s also a disguise or these glasses give the man, woman, boy or girl confidence when they are worn and that helps make them become a super hero article.
Whatever you see in the body language or the nonverbal communication of men or women you will want to take the time to base line the situation so that you interpret the signs and signals the right way.
Reading body language: While reading the body language of men or women you may find a few traits that will reveal some of the information about them that you can interpret to understand how to interact with them.
When it comes to nonverbal communication and the clues that it gives you can read whether a man or woman has confidence or lacks it.
When reading the body language to determine the confidence level you will want to look at a few items:
·The shoulders and arms
·General body movements
Body language of the head and lack of confidence
When a man or woman lacks confidence they may walk or move around with their head down or you may see that the chin becomes closer to the chest. This does not always happen it is just one of the signs or items that may or may not occur. In some instances the man or woman will not make eye contact
Body language of the face and the lack of confidence
The face may reveal some of the signs of lack of confidence though micro expressions and it could be through sadness. You may see the face pointed down and a possible pucker on the face. As with any part of reading body language you may or may not see this action and it may or may not combine with the other signals of the body. You may see a frown or even a scowel on the face.
Lack of confidence and the shoulders and arms
When a man or woman lacks confidence their shoulders may roll in. This may or may not be disguised by folded arms. You may notices the body movements are not fluid.
Walking and the lack of confidence
While reading the nonverbal signs of a man or women to determine the confidence or the lack of confidence one of the “tells” that may give away what is going on may be the walk or the speed of the walk. Sometimes when people lack confidence they walk slower or lose their fluid motion or stride.
Body movements that give away lack of confidence
As you watch a man or woman and baseline their actions nonverbally you may notice a few things or you may just see one item that could help you determine or give you clues as to what is going on. The hands and the movements of the body can give away many of these clues and when looking for confidence or the lack of confidence these two items can help. When there is the possibility of the lack of confidence not only is it possible for the man or the woman to lose their stride while they walk but they may also lose the fluid movements of the body. It is a possibility that the movements may become slower or jerky when confidence is lost.
You may even see the man or the woman to do what they can to cover their face when there is some stressful moments but this not always happen.
Baseline your body language reading
When reading the body language of others it is important to take the time to look and see what is going on in the surroundings but also to take a moment to read what the man or the woman is doing. Be patient and take your time because if you read a situation wrong you may notice that the reaction can create some issues. Most of the time the body language can give you a general idea of what is going on but remember there are times where you can be wrong so take you time.
Reading body language: Now there are many things that you can do when reading the body language of others. You can learn just as much if not more from a man or woman’s nonverbal communication as you can from their words.
When a woman or man is confident they have signs and signals that people not just interpret but they understand without knowing body language. It is just seen and automatically compiled in the brain.
As people lose their confidence there is also body language that is associated with their lack of certainty. This lack of certainty can also be picked up and picked apart.
When you are looking at or viewing a man or woman who has problems with their confidence or the body language of someone who is confident there are a few items that you can read into:
·The posture of the man or the woman
·The pace of the man or woman’s walk
·The speed of the movements of the man or woman’s body
·The position of the chin
·The eye contact of the man or woman
·The micro expressions or facial expressions
·The breathing pattern or location of the man or woman
Reading the body language confidence that high or low
The posture is going to give you the first clue as to what is possibly going through someone’s mind and how confident they are or are not. A confident man or woman will typically sit or stand straight up with their shoulders rolled out. In a sense it may seem like they are trying to make their body appear larger or take up more space but in a little more subtle action. A non-confident person will shrink and the shoulders may roll inwards along with the lack of a strong posture. The man or woman’s head may be tilted down.
The posture is one of the easiest portions of the body when it comes to reading the signs and signals of body language, It is fairly simple to determine whether or not a person has proper posture.
In some instances standing with hands behind the back may be seen as a high sign of confidence when it comes to body language but be careful sometimes this action may cause people to think that you have something to hide. “See the law of reaction”
Confident men and women are not scared to make or hold good eye contact. In some instances an arrogant person may hold eye contact too long and it becomes uncomfortable.
When dealing with a man or woman who is lacking confidence they may have a tough time holding eye contact with others for more than a few seconds. A man or woman who is good with their nonverbal communication would know when to break their eye contact so that it would not be uncomfortable.
Reading the body language of confidence and walking
Men and woman who have high confidence have a glide to their movements, an elegance that can be picked up on. The confident man or woman strides when they walk and they do not take small steps normally and this may not be an accurate explanation if there is a medical condition of the confident man or woman.
When a man or woman lacks confidence they may walk slower than a person who has more confidence. The steps can be seen as smaller as the strides get smaller. It may also seem like the person with less confidence is wandering as if they don’t know where they are going. A confident person may not know where they are going but you may not be able to tell from how they are walking it may seem like they are on their way to a destination.
A confident man or woman will walk with their chin up in the body language of arrogance the man or woman may hold their chin up higher and may display contempt as a facial expression while they are on the go. The eye contact from a confident man or woman would be good and could be help for longer than most people are comfortable with.
On the other hand a non-confident man or woman would walk with their head down and not make good eye contact with others
If the man or woman uses his or her hands while talking you will see their glide or elegance of their actions while a man or woman who is lacking in confidence will have more jerky motions and it may seem like they are a bit nervous and sometimes they will shake.
A confident man or woman may know that they should not point at another person and would leave their hands open to display that they are trustworthy. A less confident man or woman may keep their hands closed and this may create confrontation.
To be seen and viewed as confident keep your hands in view or the people or person that you are talking to so that it is not difficult for others to trust you. Practice in front of a mirror or camera your average every day conversations to see how you interact using your body language with others.
Reading the body language of confidence and breathing
Men and women who are confident may breath differently than a person who is lacking confidence. The breathing pattern of someone who is confident will have a slower deliberate pattern and may know how to breathe through their diaphragm naturally but their breathes will still be seen as strong
For the man or women who are lacking confidence you may see and hear them taking slower shallow breathes. This breathing could be seen almost as a panting but slower.
Reading the facial expressions of a confident woman or man
The facial expressions of a confident man or woman may be seen as a smile or smirk. The eyes are open and visible. The forehead is not scrunched but more relaxed. You would be able to read a relaxed state on the face or in the facial expressions of the man or woman. The eyebrows could be even but not down as if the person was sad.
For a man or woman who is lacking confidence their might be a tight look on their face almost as if they are worried about something. Their lips may be turned in or puckered out. The forehead of the man or woman who lacks confidence may show wrinkles and their eyebrows may be pointed down in the center.
Reading the body language of confidence in men or women has many of the same characteristics for both sexes. Start with looking at either men or women and learn one sexes traits before the others.
Body language: There is something about an Alpha male that eludes men and women’s ability to ascertain what makes them so special. When reading the body language of an alpha male there are quite a few things that the man will do that gets attention not only form the woman but also the men.
Both genders can read into the body language of confidence and that is one of them key items that an alpha male will portray.
Reading the body language of an alpha male in a room
If you are reading the body language of an alpha male in a room you will notice a few things:
·The alpha male will go wherever he wants
·The alpha male will do what he wants
·The alpha male will talk to who he wants even if that person is in a relationship
·In essence the alpha male will do what he wants when he wants
It doesn’t matter where the alpha male is in the room he gets attention and it is almost magnetic because he knows that he can get away with what he wants when he wants it. That is the alpha male.
In some instances the alpha male will use his special powers to get the attention that he needs from the men or woman that he wants to mate with.
Some people may confuse his confidence for arrogance but in some instances his arrogance is beyond his confidence. This arrogance may be seen through the eyes of contempt
Reading the body language of an alpha male in business
The alpha male will normally take the lead in many things in life and while in the business world he will do the same. You may find that he will live life by the motto of “it’s better to ask for forgiveness than ask for permission” and sometimes he will cross the line and forget to ask for forgiveness.
In a room of business people the alpha male will take the best seat at the table or in the room. For the men in the room who don’t have the same type of special powers they may not say anything to the man when it comes to him doing something out of place.
The alpha male may have a natural ability to lead others or he may be ineffective but just goes with whatever because he feels that he can.
At a table he may take up more space than the other guys by spreading his arms or legs to take up more space. He may be fidgety while others talk and verbally he may just talk over the other men and woman in the room.
Whether standing or sitting you may find that the alpha male may break the unwritten laws of body language when it comes to proximity or the “Bell bubble”
You would read his body language and find confidence in his actions no matter where he is in the room or who he is with.
The alpha male may display arrogance and sit with his fingers locked behind his head and lean back in his chair while others are talking.
The alpha may seem impatient with others ideas and thoughts and tell everyone what he thinks no matter what the outcome is.
Reading body language of an alpha male in dating and relationships
There are many similarities between what an alpha male does in the business world and in the dating world:
·Taking the best seat
·Walking in front of others
·Stands and sits with a wide stance
·Holds and maintains eye contact longer than most
·Touches others freely
·Keeps his chin up
·Leaves his body open not covering vital body parts
·Has the consistent body language of confidence
·Automatically tells others what to do and yes it may come across wrong
While out on a date or in a bar the alpha male might display any of the characteristics that you may find in the business world.
The clothing of the alpha male could go a few ways. Pick up artists would say that the guy would “peacock” his clothes and or accessories as a way to get attention from others, but in most instances the alpha male would not have to do this since he would know how to get attention without gimmicks.
You may find the clothing of an alpha male to be trendy for whatever group or association as he would be seen as one that may be a leader. It doesn’t matter if he rides a Harley and wears blue jeans and leathers or if he is in the business world and wears a 5,000 suit. Whatever group he is associated with he is the one who sets the trends of his association.
Reading the body language of alpha males can be done best at bars or clubs. You will notice how the interactions happen with those who are not alpha males almost as if it is an unwritten code. The men who are not the alphas will automatically allow the alpha to take the lead.
There are some people who do not care for the nonverbal actions of the alpha male and this could be seen as a huge turn off.
Taking the time to read the body language of others means that you must first learn the “norms” of the man or the woman by watching them to see consistent behaviors. This base lining of the body language will help you read the situation better.
Reading body language: In many instances the body language of men in woman in uniforms may be seen as very specific while you are reading the person. You may be reading the body language of a man or woman in uniform that is:
·A police officer
·A service technician
·A businessman or woman in a suit
·A judge in a robe
·Or any clothing or attire that has to be earned and gives the person title or power
You as the viewer have been preconditioned over time while reading the symbols and the body language of those in uniforms. In many instances their power comes from your recognition and conformity of those signs, symbols and uniforms. Their power and ability comes from your acknowledgement of what you perceive.
The body language that you may be reading may be that of confidence and in some instances aggression depending upon the situation. In some cases the confidence may be artificial and based upon belonging to a group or collective.
The confidence or aggression that you could read may be just from the man or woman earning the right to wear the uniform along with the symbolism built into parts of the clothing. This confidence, conceit or aggression can be with the men or women in any type of uniform from an expensive business suit to a police officer.
You can recognize a police or judicial officer in just about any part of the world as their clothing or uniforms are similar.
Reading body language of uniform signs
While reading the body language and signs of a uniform you will see:
·Some sort of official badge or marker showing that they are law enforcement
·A mark or insignia showing rank
·Similar haircuts or facial hair
·Some sort of device to hold people like handcuffs
·Some sort of device to deter people like a Billy club, baton or even a gun
The rank insignia may breed confidence, arrogance or even contempt for others outside of the group. For some people who are reading the body language of police officers they may say that all have an arrogance or belief of extra power because of the backing of others or because of the ability to have a gun or firearm.
In the case of a business man or woman you would see:
·A nice suit
·Possibly a briefcase
·Some ornate jewelry or watch
While reading the body language of a uniform you will want to look for what transformational item gives to person or group their power or perceived authority, this may come from the collective group or the uniform itself. You will also want to look for the items or item where they show their power and that can be a watch briefcase or badge.
Reading the body language of confidence from a uniform
When you see a man or woman in a uniform the confidence that is common from looking at and reading their body language will cause the man or woman to:
·Stand straight up
·Walk with a smooth glide and their arms and rest of the body will have the same
·Maintain good eye contact
·Keep their chin up
·Keep their clothing clean and their shoes or boots polished
·Verbally be able to give commands so that others follow their direction
In some instances the persuasive power of the message of the man or woman does not come from their own mouth as much as it relies upon the power of their uniform. This can be for salespeople all the way across the spectrum to police officers. In some instances it not a matter of persuasion as it is a matter of intimidation.
Reading body language: While reading the body language of aspiring leaders there are a few things to remember. An effective leader is one that communicates a message effectively. On the other hand because someone is a good communicator it does not make them an effective leader.
Presidential campaigns and debates from the Democrats and the Republicans and all parties are put under scrutiny when it comes to their candidate as to the message that he or she can deliver. Reading the body language of the nominee or the contender during the debates gives a glimpse of what the man or woman would do under pressure in front of cameras if there were an accident, act of nature, war or anything else that a President may have to deal with while in office.
In some instances the reactions to the man or the woman who is hopeful of becoming president is over read and in some instances the man or the woman is set up to get a reaction that can be read into.
Reading the body language of reactions
Your body language and the interpretation comes one to one thing and that is the reaction from the other person. Looking at the law of reaction when it comes to body language and reading into the situation it is important to point out whatever you are watching and reading into only matters as to what you believe. So you think that the Presidential hopeful is closed off because he or she crosses their arms, then that is what it means.
Hope is not a strategy for the man or woman seeking the nomination to move forward in the election process.
Every good reaction in the body language that is being read by the viewer gives the man or the woman a little more confidence in the viewer’s eyes. Every blunder when it comes to the nonverbal communication of the man or the women takes a little away from their campaign for the moment or for good in some instances.
Huge key point: No matter in politics, business, relationships and even friendships people are judged on their body language reactions to incidents, questions, agreements, stories, other body language and even beliefs.
Reading body language of Presidential candidates during the debates
People want to see that their leader is strong and appears strong in public and this strength can be seen through the confidence of the leader. A confident leader has a few traits when it comes to reading their body language:
The posture of leaders or presidential hopefuls is usually that of one of a man or woman who stands straight up. Their chin is not too far up as to seem arrogant but not low enough to seem depressed. This posture helps the person watching or viewing the ability to determine the leader or Presidential candidate understands the situation and has control over what is going on behind the scenes.
The lack of a good posture in a moment of presenting may show the signs and signals of weakness or defeat.
The debates allows for the viewer to decide who would be best to run the country based upon what they see and hear from the Presidential candidate and this includes what body language that is read into by the viewer especially that of confidence.
Reading body language of Presidential candidate movements
When a Presidential candidate being whether a man or woman have confidence their body language shows the signs of it. A confident Presidential candidate will have a glide to their actions, they will not seem jerky and on the other hand they will not seem too fast. The body language of a strong Presidential candidate will be smooth and that smoothness will convey confidence even in the face of a difficult or bad question about something they have done in the past.
If a video clip is replayed of the Presidential candidate at the debate and their words do not go over well the visual signs of the man or woman being confident may be enough to sway a voter because they were able to connect a good emotion with the sight of the candidate showing confidence through difficult times.
Think about the times where you have seen what is going on with the show on television and could not hear the words but you were able to interpret or even possibly understand the situation because you were able to pick up on the nonverbal cues of the people in the show.
On the other hand you may have seen a show and the body language of a guest you were reading led you to believe that the person on the show was having difficulties with what was either being said or what was being done. Nonverbal actions may be able to make up for verbal mistakes in some instances.
Reading body language of eye contact from Presidential candidates
Presidential candidates who have and maintain good eye contact from those who are viewing their debates may be seen as more Presidential by those reading their body language because there may be more of a connection to the audience or the viewer.
Good eye contact can make or break a conversation or a debate for a Presidential Candidate.
Great eye contact may take someone who was not really into a Presidential candidate before the debate to a believer into what they are saying or what they propose to do. Now it is difficult to experience real eye contact from a person who is watching a debate through a television but when a Presidential candidate connects with the live audience or crown it may be conveyed through the screen and give the feeling to the television viewer of real.
If a tough question was asked during the debate of the Presidential candidate did they look away and try not to answer the question or did they tackle it head on with good eye contact like hey had nothing to hide along with showing confidence in their posture?
Did they look into the camera or at the crowd when they were asked about a tough position they have held and now want to change because of public opinion?
Think back to when you were a kid and dealing with a Mother or Father, if you didn’t give them good eye contact when they asked about something you did or were going to do did they think you were lying?
You may get that chance to decide who is the best fit for you and your beliefs while watching the Presidential Debates.
The same goes for Presidential candidates who debate from the Republican or even Democrat parties or even those from the Libertarians or Green parties.
In the next article we will discuss a few more exciting things about reading the body language of Presidential candidates while debating.
Reading body language: When you look at the nonverbal communication that a man or woman has there are times where a viewer can see the confidence in the man or woman shine through almost like a special power.
It almost seems that the man or woman cannot be stopped…
Reading the body language of men and women can lead to many places and some interesting topics. Explaining the “Law of super hero articles” is one of those places.
Have you ever watched someone who was superstitious about their socks, pen, watch, sunglasses or any other inanimate object that the man or woman felt help them increase in whatever action they were taking part in?
So what does this inanimate object have to do with reading body language and nonverbal communication?
It could be a suit or shoes and maybe even the makeup on a woman that builds confidence…
Reading body language of super hero articles
It may even be the object or objects that people hold or wear that may cause them to have an inordinate amount of confidence in whatever task that they are doing.
If you were asking in your mind could it be a set of golf clubs, a car or even a big fat diamond ring?
When reading the body language signs and signals of men and women you will typically find that they will have something that they use as a crutch to grant them their super hero powers for their confidence.
So you still don’t see how this would help?
Have you ever been to somewhere dressed up and all of the sudden you feel better or you go out and get a new hand bag and boom your confidence is through the roof? That confidence shows through in your nonverbal communication and your body language changes, and yes everybody can see it but they may not be able to understand or interpret why.
The body language of confidence is almost automatic and you are living the “Law of super hero articles”.
The signs and signals in your body language that others would see are:
·A smother pace with the actions of your body almost like a glide
·A faster pace with walking
·Shoulders up and possibly out
·The chin could be lifted and in some cases high enough that other people may think that it is arrogance
·A smile or smirk on the face of the confident man or woman
·Sometimes you will see in the man a swagger within his walk and or actions
·The article with super hero power may be shown off or lead off of the body
The law of super hero article says: “A man or woman will use their inanimate object to help build confidence or draw from this article when needed to overcome an event. This article can be anything from clothing, jewelry or even accessories”.
When a man or woman is really using their article for super hero powers they may lead off with it. In the case of the hand bag it may be held in a strange way so that it gets attention. A watch or a ring on a man or woman could be used in a similar fashion. Sometimes after women have gone through plastic surgery they may use whatever body part that was modified to lead off with.
Of these items it may be that you get a manicure or pedicure or even a haircut frequently. For some it may even be the tattoos that they have and it can go as far as people who have had plastic surgery where the crutch holds its power of confidence.
Reading body language homework
Your body language homework is to go through your clothes and accessories to see what super hero articles that you have and write down what you think that other people are reading from you when you wear them. May a note of how you think your nonverbal communication changes. Once you have done this you will see how these super hero articles may affect other men or women and even you when you wear or possess them.
The knowledge of your super hero articles also helps you on a day where you may not have all of the confidence that you think that you should. Just remember that the extra confidence that you gain from these objects is only temporary at best and not real so it must be reloaded constantly.
For some men and women this means constant trips to the store to upgrade super hero powers and this is what some advertisers want you to feel about the product that you buy from vendors and or companies. They sell a dream or feeling with super hero powers and you buy into it.
True confidence does not come from possession of articles it comes from within.
And you thought you were just going to learn about reading body language but you also received a small course in marketing.
·How the leader interacts when delivering a good or bad message
·How the leader interacts with good or bad questions
·If the leader makes the common mistakes of lying.
Reading the body language of leaders can help you to know what to do and not to do in front of the media or even in front of your office.
Body language of confidence through movement
People who are confident have a glide to their movements whereas they are not too jerky and not too rigid. For the most part this ability to have movements that glide signifies comfort and in turn will allow those who are watching the leader to help see confidence in their message. Now the person who is the leader may have an ability to fake confidence somewhat and when this happens there will be a point where their guard drops and their weakness can be seen through. While you view them they will have a point where something may not seem right and it may just be a brief second where they make a facial expression or they lose their posture. The leader in a moment of weakness may even use his hands or part of his body to block a bad question.
Body language of hand movements for a leader
For a leader to have strong verbal and nonverbal communication skills they need to know what they can or cannot do with their hands and arms. It may seem silly to say that man or woman has to watch how far away their arms get from their body but a strong communicator knows that a person judging them will only give them one shot as to be seen as strong and a capable leader. That is part of the price to pay to lead. Keeping hands close to the body but not too close will show through nonverbal communication that the leader has self-control. Self-control shows the person or the crowd that the leader has the attributes of someone who can spearhead an organization, country, group or any other place where needed.
Reading body language of a leaders posture
A leader when delivering their message has to have the right posture. The way that he or she stands or sits will show confidence or defeat. When a leader stands with confidence they will be completely upright and straight unless there is a medical condition or injury, their shoulders will be square and slightly rolled back. As they look out at their people, group or even congregation their chin will be up but no so far that they show arrogance. Throughout their interaction this posture will stay unless there is a moment of weakness that shows through.
The posture of the leader in question when the combination of posture, hand gesture and smoothness of body movements combine they may show through as a sort of charisma by the viewers of the leader.
Part 2 of how to read the body language of a leader…
Reading body language: Understanding and interpreting human behavior can take someone many places. When it comes to reading body language there are so many things to look at to determine what someone is thinking and in a way people who are good at reading body language may sometimes come across as clairvoyant or even mind readers.
There are some significant items to look at while interpreting nonverbal communication and in some instances these items may carry more weight in given situations.
One item in specifics that may give a huge insight as to what people are saying without saying is it is their choice for fashion.
Reading the body language of a CEO
Think about it this way for a second. If you were to look at a fortune 500 CEO and see him in his custom business suit would his body language read differently while he was in his uniform vs if he were out on a beach working on a tan in board shorts?
The answer would depend upon the CEO and how they view themselves but for the most part a person’s attire will directly affect their actions verbally and nonverbally.
For some people what they decide to wear becomes their outfit to become a super hero. Now this may or may not sound strange but some people build their confidence from what they wear. If they are in some attire that they feel makes them better for any given reason they become more confident.
There are some people who don’t care about what they wear and there are others who care about what they wear because of the opinion of their peers.
In a business setting with one of these CEO’s their attire may cause them to be seen as a hero or as a villain to their peers.
Reading the body language of fashion attire causes one to question, is the person wearing their outfit, gear or costume because they want to or because of the peer pressure to fit into a mold or category that has been defined by another person or group.
Take for instance the CEO who is in the board shorts, would his message be the same visually if he were to give a presentation in those board shorts vs. in his custom suit?
Is there a reason that his suit would need to be custom because it is expected or because he or even she is worried about what people think of their fashion sense or style?
The answer may be both reasons. He or she may need to wear their attire that is specified to fit into the mold that has been created and followed since who knows when.
For a man who would be used to some of the custom labels like Canali or Ermenegildo Zegna with a super 160 fabric or higher, an off the rack suit basic super 110 fabric may destroy his confidence (for the intents of this article the higher the number on the fabrics the better the wool used). This could be the same for his tie, shirts, shoes and even cuff links. In some instances peoples watches can be their super hero attire that they use for confidence.
Reading body language of women and fashion
Some women and even men are really into fashion. The designer for them really matters, the colors of the clothes really matter, the fit really matters and even the materials really matter.
Name off a bunch of designers and these people would know who they are easily: Versace, Dior, Vivienne Westwood, Salvatore Ferragamo, Tom Ford, Brioni, Armani, Prada and they could talk about each of their fashion lines. Now these names could go on forever whether European or even some of the American designers.
When someone is confident and comfortable their body language reads entirely different from when a person is uncomfortable and lacks confidence and clothing plays a big part of that.
Confident people tend to:
·Walk more smoothly as it almost seems as an unlabored glide
·Sit up straight more consistently
·They may keep their hands away from their body as protection
·Their breathing pattern may be relaxed
·There is more of a calmness to them overall
·Verbally they seem to talk faster with an almost exacting knowledge
Some people gather these feelings and abilities from what they wear.
Reading into the body language of a man or woman who is uncomfortable would show:
·A general lack of confidence throughout their body, they may try to make themselves smaller in stature to not stand out.
·Some stress in their facial expressions and even sometimes sheer fear or frustration could be seen in the reactions
·Maybe a rapid pace of breathing almost to a panic
·A haphazard approach to their nonverbal actions where they would not seem consistent or smooth. In some instances they would seem out of place
·They may be shifty or fidgety with their hands playing with buttons or even a pen
Reading the body language of a man or woman’s fashion may show both the positives and negatives of their nonverbal communication.
For a man or woman who is used to being seen in a specific clothing style or designer they may have problems appearing in public or in the board room in something that would not be deemed good or desirable from their peers.
Women love their shoes and they are not just and accessory they make the outfit, if they had to show up somewhere in a pair of shoes that would get them ridiculed by other women their confidence would be decreased for the most part and their body language would show the signs of their stress. A women who is used to wearing $2,500 Christian Louboton shoes may have trouble going out for a night in $20 off brand basics especially if she knows that she will be judged by other women.
Reading body language of purses and watches with confidence
Celebrity women or even just regular women may also need to have the latest or greatest purse or handbag by one of the top designers Hermes comes to mind with their $25,000 Birkin Bag. Sometimes just this article alone can be the device used as the super hero powers like a man and his Rolex or other similar watch that shows status to the rest of the world.
Some men or women seem to float as they walk by with their fashionable attire. In some instances this float may become arrogance or may even make up for a lack of confidence. The body language that is read may sow contempt to the people who are around them for whatever reason or the man or the woman may just turn their nose up at others around them.
Take away some of these peoples status symbols of fashion or accessories and the men or women lose their super-secret special powers and abilities.
Reading body language of fashion and designers may help you understand and interpret why a person has confidence of lacks it.
Reading body language homework
You have something in your closet or drawers that make you a super hero or feel like a villain sit down for a moment and figure out if those items or that single item is your source of confidence or if you are confident in general. It is a help to know what makes you feel better when your body language is being read and needs to project confidence and knowledge. For some it may be a tie, a suit, a watch, underwear, a pair of slingbacks (that’s a type of women’s shoe for the men who are reading think high heels), a bag or even a big fat diamond ring.
Take the time to understand why these items make you feel better and become your own internal super hero and it may surprise you what you find out.
Reading body language like an expert is a skill that can be learned. Understanding and interpreting nonverbal communication is a strategy that can help you in business life as well as your social life.
As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or question about reading the body language of fashion.
Now go implement!
Scott Sylvan Bell
Two Teenage Girls Shopping by photostock, Gorgeous Woman Picking Her Choice by photostock:Photo credits for reading body language of fashion