Body language of listening

 

Body language of listening: One of the biggest complaints among people who have conversations is that the man or the woman is not listening.

 

It doesn’t matter if you are in a relationship, work for someone or even have kids at some point you have wondered if the people around you are listening.

 

As with any project or time with reading the body language of others you will want to baseline or watch the person for a moment to understand their signs and or signals before making a judgment.  

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Nonverbal signs of listening

There are a few nonverbal signs when it comes to listening:

  • ·         Eye contact
  • ·         Direction of the body
  • ·         Tilt of the head
  • ·         Nonverbal actions
  • ·         Micro expressions

 

Body language of eye contact and listening

When talking to others both men and women prefer that the person that is listening has good eye contact with the speaker. For most people it’s a sign of respect and just a good overall sign that the eye contact is present. Now there are people who pretend that they are listing and they have great eye contact. If it’s just eye contact and no other nonverbal sign the man or woman may be concerned that listening is not happening.

 

Nonverbal actions of listening and the direction of the body  

Now when a man or woman is listening to you they may turn their body slightly while they listen. If you are not familiar with the person facing each other and standing or sitting too close may cause some altercations. If there is an anticipation of issues it may be best to slightly turn to not aggravate the man or the woman talking to you. This may work well for relationships or in business interactions, just remember slight as it may be a sign that you want to be out of the conversation.

 

When the man, woman or child is not facing you there will be signs and signals that you will want to look for like shaking the head or using a symbol.

 

Body language of listening and the tilt of the head

For some men or women that listen actively they will tilt their head to the right or to the left and may even turn their head towards the speaker. Now this is not always the case but there are times where people do so and it may even be when it is difficult to hear in a loud location. Tilting the head is not a definite sign that there is listening going on but may give you a clue to if the man or the woman is listening to what you are saying.

 

Nonverbal actions of listing

Now some of the other signs and signals of listening is the head, hand or arm movement or even symbols that could be shown. Now people may shake their head yes or no when they listen to you. Now this may be through a sales presentation, a sermon, an argument between a boyfriend or girlfriend or just an everyday conversation.

 

You may see a man or women give you the thumbs up sign here in the United States or even use an arm swipe as to say no way. There may even be a time where the man or the woman throws their hands up as a sign of giving up while you talk and that may just be a sign that they are about to give up and walk away.

 

There may even be some signs by shrugging the shoulders or throwing the hands up in the air. There are times where people get impatient and tap pens or anything similar.

 

Micro expressions and the signs of listening  

As a man or women listens to you they may get emotional for the good or even for the bad and you may be able to see that through their microexpressions. You may have a coworker or friend that gets angry from your conversation and when you see that you may want to change the course of the conversation. It doesn’t make sense for you to expect the other person to listen to you and you then not listen to them.

 

You will also want to show your active listening body language or nonverbal communication with the other man or woman. Just remember the law of reaction because the reaction or the signs and signals you exhibit may cause the other person to react to what you do.  Be patient with others while they communicate and they should be patient with you.

 

Learning how to read body language can be fun and make your own communication more effective.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about reading the body language of listening

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

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Body language of successful women

 

Body language of successful women: Having the ability to read body language like an expert  can help you in many situations whether professional, personal or even when it is dangerous. Understanding the cues or nonverbal actions that men and women take will allow you the ability.

 

Women have some specific traits that they have when it comes to body language and typically women are softer when it comes to their actions and what they do than what you would find with the body language of a man. This is not a judgment or a bad thing it just is what it is.  

 

The approach that women have when working with others is different than what a man might do and this ranges from the way that they walk up to a man or woman and what body language or nonverbal actions that they use.

 

Women have come far in the short span of the last 50 years just going back that far it wasn’t common for a woman to own a business or to be successful without a man. It’s a great and fantastic thing that it is more and more common to see successful women.

 

When it comes to the nonverbal signs of successful women there will be plenty of “maybe’s and “possibly” statements as there is no exact uniform body language of successful women or men just some common threads that may or may not happen as with any other reading of nonverbal actions.

 

As a general guide you will always want to baseline the man or the woman that you want to read the body language of especially if you are going to interact, you will not want to have some issues with the law of reaction.  

 

When successful women read your body language or nonverbal actions know and understand that you will be under far more scrutiny than you would be of that of a successful man, they will know what to look for.

 

Body language of successful women and confidence

Typically for all of the issues that have held women successful women back they will normally show good signs of confidence. The successful women will normally glide while they walk and it will seem like its even. The eye contact may be stronger than normal as successful women have probably been “eye checked” to see how serious they may be about their business strategies and or tactics and this may really be the case when a man doesn’t believe that “she” will be able to succeed.   Women can tell when a man or another woman lacks confidence as they have been approached for dating and can interpret the bad sigans and signals from the lack of confidence.

 

Body language of successful women’s hands and touching others  

Typically women take better care of their hands than what men do. You may notice that a successful woman has possible manicured hands and clean skin. A woman who is successful may or may not touch others but when she does it will be appropriate to make sure that the wrong message is not sent to the recipient especially if the recipient is a man. To put it simply a successful woman will know where to touch and where not to no matter what her hands look like.

 

Pay attention to how you touch a woman successful or not for them it will be a comfort zone issue. Know that the general rule is that it is ok to touch a woman after they have touched you in limited locations like particularly on the back of their arm from the shoulder to the elbow. Now for the guys who think that they are pick up artists or alpha males the men may think that these rules do not apply to them.

 

If you are a man or woman reading this women will be looking at your hands to determine what they can decipher about you without even talking.  

 

Body language of successful women’s clothing

You may find that successful women dress well, now that doesn’t always mean expensive cloths but you will find that most of the time successful women will make sure that their presentation of what they wear is acceptable to the other women and men around them.

 

If you get the chance to ask women who they dress up for whether its shoes, clothing, makeup, accessories and they will normally say that they way that they look is for other women to not be judged by them. This may not be the case for men, for the most part men only worry about what woman think (this is not a 100% for every man).

 

A successful woman will show through he nonverbal signs of her clothing that she is a force to be reckoned with especially if she is used to seeing the micro expressions of contempt.

 

Women whether successful or not will typically pay attention to how other women and men are dressed and make their decisions based upon what they see.

 

Body language of successful women’s accessories

You will find that successful women will typically know the limitations of what accessories should be worm in each occasion. You may find that “she” has bracelets, earrings, pendants on a chain or a ring that are tasteful but not excessive. This is not a 100% rule as some successful women make sure that you know she has money and the diamonds and gold will prove it.

 

You may find that the successful woman is carrying a nice purse and that her accessories have to match what she is wearing.

 

 

Body language of successful women’s shoes

Men typically don’t understand that for women shoes are an accessory that can make or break an outfit whether a woman is successful or not it is typical for women to pay close attention to shoes but not just theirs, but your also.

 

For some women dirty shoes are a deal breaker especially if you have not taken care of yours. That means that they better be cleaned and or polished and this could be for a man or a women. Women usually pay more attention to details and make their decisions based upon “gut instinct” more than what men do.

 

If you tell a woman that you are successful the shoes that you wear as a man or a woman may just give away whether you are telling the truth or fabricating your abilities.    

 

Body language of successful women’s nonverbal actions

Successful women will understand the rules of proximity even if they don’t know a name like “bell bubble”. Women can be more intuitive when it comes to dealing with others and may have a better sense of paying attention to what their body is doing so that they do not have to answer for it later.

 

A successful women will pay attention to your nonverbal actions to see if what you are saying will match up to what your body is saying or doing.

 

It is not ever a good idea to lie to someone but lying to a successful woman would be a mistake especially if they have kids because they are used to seeing kids make things up to not get into trouble. If she thinks for a second that you are not being truthful chances are you are done and will not get a second chance.  

 

Body language of successful women and double standards

Over the years with women being around business the unofficial rules have relaxed but there still is plenty of room to make changes. You may see successful women show the signs of frustration while dealing with others especially if there are double standards as to what they are doing and dealing with men. Women can touch other women or men but its not the other way around for women getting touched by men there is a double standard but that isn’t a bad thing.

 

 

Body language of successful women as times change

It’s a good thing to see women making their way more into the business world. A recent article said that 70% of all new businesses being started are by women. It will be interesting to see the types of changes that move forward as women become more successful and the culture of business changes. Hopefully the endeavors work out for the women and you will get more of a chance to read the nonverbal actions and signs of successful women in the future.

 

Reading the body language of anyone can be beneficial to your professional, personal and even dating life. Home study course can be used when you want and at your own pace.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about reading the body language of successful women.

 

 

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Body language of James Bond

 

Body language of James Bond: Imagine the complications of being a world class spy. Reading the nonverbal actions of James Bond does require you to think a little more about body language than most people.

 

There are so many facets to a person Like James Bond and the actions that he takes along with the person that he has. Thorough out his day there are plenty of activities that he has to achieve:

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James Bond and the body language of seduction

One of the things that the British spy James Bond is known for is the women that he seduces. There are times when James is a pick up artists and seduces the women he needs to get the valuable information from or he just may be attracted to them. James knows how to get close to the women invading their proximity or Bell bubble touching them, facial expressions or using eye contact to get their attention. The women are usually intricate and beautiful but there is normally a twist where they get James into trouble.

 

James Bond and the body language of spying

While out in the field James Bond must spy on people or activities there are times where he has to get attention and draw out the villain. Sometimes the actions that James takes nonverbally like dropping something or throwing something to get the person or the group of people to take action so that he knows who to chase or even fight. There are also times where James must use covert body language and hide in the shadows so that the man or the woman that he is chasing can lead him up the chain of villains  

 

James bond and fights

As James goes through his journeys one of the things that he has to do is fight with some of the villains or the super villains. Now some of the times he has to strike first and sometimes he is surprised and has to fight for his life. Sometimes this fighting is from James seeing the body language of the villain tense up or picks up on a micro expression and explodes into action. Once the fight is done there are times where the nonverbal communication of the fight can be seen from the clothes being torn or some blood. There are also times where you cant tell from looking that James was in a fight.

 

Body language, emotions and facial expressions of James Bond

There are plenty of moods or emotions that James bond has to live up to also some of these emotions may show up in the body language or nonverbal communication while some of the emotions may show up as micro expressions.

 

As the super-agent there are times where James doesn’t get along with  his leaders and usually shows contempt for their orders.

 

Being the super spy that he is most of the time James Bond shows confidence in his actions most of the time whether he is with women or driving his car after a villain. There are times where he shows frustration and either kills people, crashes cars or breaks things.

 

Many people would consider James bond arrogant because of the way that he carries himself and in some instances he is. Understanding what type of spy he is and what type of insane villains and dictators he must deal with may explain his arrogance against people. Since he is the best at what he does he may just exude confidence so he would walk tall with his chin up, walk at a fast pace in stride, shoulders up and have great eye contact.

 

 

While trailing villains James does have to lower his profile and use covert body language.  Hiding in the background he has to either walk faster or slower than the people that he is chasing after. He may have to duck behind cars, sit in the shadows or use some gadget to peer around corners to see what his nemesis is up to.

 

James bonds clothing and superhero articles  

When taking a look at the clothing and gadgets of James Bond some of the articles could be considered super hero articles. That would mean that they have some sort of special power of ability to give him more confidence. As a general rule James wears clothing and suits form the top designers.

 

James Bond Reading Body Language

As a spy James Bond would have training to read body language, nonverbal communication and micro expressions. Chasing villains that are trying to kill him or destroy a country or the planet while seducing women would have to require more talents than just being able to talk, drive and kill people. It would help James to know the signs and signals of lust to danger.  

 

Learn how to read body language

Whether you are reading the body language or the nonverbal communication of James Bond or learning how to read people for sales or negotiation this home study course is the best route to learn the signs and signals of peoples actions.   

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about the body language of James Bond.

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

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Micro expressions explained

 

Micro expressions and body language: When reading non verbal communication or even reading body language knowing how to identify and interpret micro expressions can help you “see” emotions by looking at facial features.

 

There are 6 universal human emotions that can be read world wide in anyone’s facial expressions:

  • ·         Anger
  • ·         Contempt
  • ·         Disgust
  • ·         Fear
  • ·         Sadness
  • ·         Surprise

 

Reading facial expressions: When it comes to reading the facial expressions and micro expressions it is important to note that these actions may last less than a fraction of a second. In less than an instant you may almost be able to “read minds”.

 

Micro expressions are looked at through:

  • ·         The eyebrows
  • ·         The bridge between the top of the nose and the eyebrows
  • ·         The eye lids both upper and lower
  • ·         The eyes
  • ·         The lips

 

Now it may be that there are  few combinations between what is listed or it may be just one place to look to determine what emotion is being displayed. When you have the capability of understand and interpret these nonverbal cues you can save yourself from everything from dangerous situations all the way to knowing when a person doesn’t want to be in a relationship.

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Micro expressions of anger: When examining the emotion of anger you would look at the eyebrows and the lips. Knowing this micro expression would allow you to possible get out of a dangerous situation.

 

Micro expressions of contempt: If you know how to spot contempt in the facial expressions of a man or a woman you can tell when they have a lack of respect for you. This facial expression happens at the mouth only. This micro expression is great to know for salespeople and someone who is in a relationship.

 

Micro expressions of disgust: This expressions utilizes the between the eyebrows and the upper lip. If you see this emotion in a relationship you may be able to tell if it is in trouble.

Micro expressions of Fear: As a man or woman shows the micro expressions of fear you would look at their eyebrows, eyelids and the mouth

 

Micro expressions of sadnessWhile reading the emotion of sadness you would look at the eyes and the mouth to determine if a man or a woman was feeling this emotion.

 

Micro expressions of Surprise: This facial expression happens at the eyebrows, the eyes and the mouth. When you know how to read this emotion you would be able to see if someone was expecting to know information or if they were hiding something from someone. This is a great micro expression to know for someone who is in law enforcement or even a lawyer.

 

Reading body language for “tells”: Body language and non verbal communication is far more than a resources of figuring out how to tell is someone is lying to you. There are times where you can see their emotions happen and you can react accordingly. Now for some people they may overreact and that will not work well,

 

Keys to learning how to read others body language: There are some fun ways to learn how to read body language and the rest of the non verbal actions and they can range from being fun to taking a course here are a few ways:

  • ·         Buy the newsstand magazines and avoid reading the headlines of the articles, guess what is going on from the pictures and then read the articles
  • ·         Watch others in action one of the best places to go and learn what others are doing with their non verbal communication is at a bar after a person has had a few drinks, they will let their guard down. Just remember if you are going to partake in the fun do so after your class. If you have too much fun learn the body language of a designated driver by getting one.
  • ·        Order a course on how to read body language and one of the best ones can be ordered here:

 

Just like any other item you would like to learn about there is a certain amount of time involved to do so.

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for you comments and or questions about micro expressions and how to read them:

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

Now go implement!

 

 

 

 

 

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Body language of anger

Body language of anger: When reading the nonverbal communication of men or women there are sometimes where the body language is 100% obvious. There are also times where you will have to read into the micro expressions of others the help you understand or interpret what is going on.

 

Micro expressions are really a way that you can read minds of other people by looking at what they are doing.  You can even tell if they are surprised or have contempt just from looking at the face.

 

It is important to remember that most mirco expression only happen for a fraction of a second and some instances they can last longer. You may just get an ever so slight moment to catch on to what a man or woman is feeling or thinking.

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While reading the micro expressions of anger you will want to look at the face of the man or woman and look for:

  • ·         The eyebrows
  • ·         The eyes
  • ·         The mouth

 

Body language of anger – The eyebrows

The micro expressions of men and women will be the same when it comes to anger. You will start by looking at their eyebrows. When angry the eyebrows will tilt in towards the center of the face or both will be flat and lower. There will be times where the nonverbal communication of anger will be felt from others just from looking at the eyebrows.

 

Body language of anger – The eyes

When reading the body language of anger the eyes will have a glare to them. In some instances the man or the woman will squint their eyes and in some instances even with the eyebrows down or flat the eyes will be wide open.

 

Body language of anger – The mouth

The body language of anger in a man or woman will also show through with their mouth. When the micro expressions of anger is shown at the mouth it will be done so through the narrowing of the lips. It may seem as if the man or the woman is biting their lips or holding them so tight they can’t let a word out of their mouth.

 

Body language of anger – other nonverbal cues from the body

When people are angry their body language or actions will be more animated. The man or the woman may shake their finger at another person and at times their hands will be as far away from the body as possible. You may see the person stomp, waive their arms, punch at non animated objects or people or they may just ball up wherever they are. When a man or woman is angry it is best to leave them alone and stay away from them as your actions may provoke them even further.

 

How to improve your micro expression skills

In order to experience the body language of anger one of the best things to do is look in the mirror and pretend that you are angry. You will want to look at your eyebrows, your nose and your mouth so that you can see exactly what your own micro expressions are and what your nonverbal communication shows others when you have a feeling or an emotion that can be read off of your face. This goes for any of the other micro expressions also.

 

Learning how to read the body language of others may sometimes may seem like the ability to be a mind reader  you can learn the skills of nonverbal communication here:

 

As always I would like to thank you in advance for your comments and or questions about reading the body language of anger!

 

Now go implement!

 

 

Scott Sylvan Bell

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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